I just decided that, ok, it didn’t work. Next, I had to move on. There is no need holding on to the past – no need holding on to something if it’s not working any more. There is no need flogging a dead horse since it is already lifeless. And when you decide to bury the horse, would you not leave the grave site afterwards? You would go now.
Anything that happens to you now, that sun would still set, another day would come. So, it’s your choice to either be part of the living or be in the grave yard.
And I choose to be alive, enjoy my life and smile at everything that is
happening – good or bad. As long as God is with you, things would always
be fine with you.
I’m not thinking about anything. At the moment, I’m facing my career. If it comes, fine. If it doesn’t come, that’s okay. It’s not the end of the world because I’m convinced that God loves me. Love has given me more than enough. I have the most gorgeous daughter in the whole world. That’s enough for me.
When Sonya Gore’s estranged, adulterous husband proposed to her on Facebook, she set him a challenge that doubled as punishment.
She forced Ivan Lewis to post a photo of himself on the social media site holding a hand-written note that read, ‘I cheated on my wife!!! (and she was ugly!!!)’.
But proving that hell hath no fury like a woman scorned, the 40-year-old said she would only marry Lewis if his embarrassing September 22 post attracted 10,000 likes. The post already has more than 6,500 likes, although Gore reckons she is ‘not making the decision [to reconcile] solely on that.’
The couple reportedly separated just 10 months after marrying in February 2010 due to Lewis’ serial cheating. But Lewis recently asked Gore on Facebook if she would marry him again, prompting Gore to propose the
online apology.
‘I wrote the post out myself,’ Gore told News One.
‘Before he posted the post up, he asked me to marry him again on Facebook and I’m like ‘Well, if you want to put that on Facebook then you need to say that you cheated and put that on Facebook.’ ‘
Gore said she was with Lewis at his computer when he posted the admission, and wanted him to feel the same humiliation she felt as a result of his cheating.
‘If he loves me, he loves me,’ she said
Gore told NewsOne that she wanted to divorce Lewis and even sought legal advice on the decision, but she had a change of heart following her straying hubby’s online declarations.
However, the online response to the public shaming has been divided.
Lewis’ supporters congratulated him for ‘manning up’, including one that said: ‘I don’t know you but I salute you for being a man and admitting to your mistake and being willing to that the embarrassment to prove to your lady that you’re willing to go the extra mile.’
Even Gore jumped in to defend her man, writing: ‘It takes a man to do what he has done he gotta here all the jokes from his so called friends and family and he set that a side to prove his love for me what girl would not want that?’
However many criticized and ridiculed the couple’s ‘attention-seeking’ behavior and warned that Lewis probably hasn’t changed.
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